Please stop transgressing the 8th commandment, ignoring your duty not to willfully misconstrue what another has said. You know perfectly well what he meant. He (and I) used polyamory so as to avoid the word trap of a sexist term. Polyamorous marriage is a commonly understood term. I keep forgetting you're so much smarter than the rest of us because you know how to use a dictionary.
You ought to be embarrassed, but you're incapable of it apparently.
I knew perfectly well what he meant and his logic was wrong and his use of language incorrect. Had I wanted to break the 8th commandment (and perhaps a few others,) I wouldn't have responded as nicely as I did.
Google will even help someone find the differences between polyamory and polygamy. Polyamory does not involve marriages. What is sexist about polygamy (if that's what you want to object to)?
Doubling down on ignoring your obligation under the 8th commandment. As I said yesterday on another post, when you look around wondering who the Pharisee is...
But there it is: once again, you make a claim of absolute truth, correct/incorrect definition (the dictionary again!) even though you periodically deny any such objective truth exists. What right do you have to say someone else's "logic was wrong"? "His use of language incorrect"? You are breaking the 8th by not actually understanding the point being mode, even as you jump to correct it as wrong.
The deeper meaning (for me) of calling them legalized polyamorous marriage is the advocacy of the people who claim to believe in tolerance. "Love is love" they tell us, nothing else matters. That's why someone might choose to refer to that prospect as polyamorous marriage, because it's all about the love. Except, as many of us having been saying for years, civil marriage was never about love. And ecclesial marriage was about more than love (and certainly not eros). It's why Justice Kennedy's judicial reasoning for legalizing same-sex marriage is a farce. The dissents describe well that the justification given could also apply to plural marriage, no limiting principle beyond I say so. Today you didn't, in a few years who knows? Someday we may have to tolerate plural marriage, because the people who arbitrate tolerance say so, and they need the government to recognize their love because it's wrong to limit love you bigot.
As for the sexist terminology I mentioned before, you certainly would have jumped all over anyone who made the "mistake" of calling multiple partner marriage polygamy. This is why the regular bad faith you exhibit here is obscene, not just pedantic. You of all people have no standing to object to another person's supposedly incorrect logic.