"Here’s Luther on this, in a sermon from 1541 on the Eve of the Day of the Circumcision, and hence as mature Luther as you can hope for (HP III:256):
Now, although Mary was not required to do this—the Law of Moses having no claim over her, for she had given birth without pain and her virginity remained unsullied—nevertheless, she kept quiet, and submitted herself to the common law of all women and let herself be accounted unclean.
She was, without a doubt, a pure, chaste virgin before the birth, in the birth, and after the birth, and was neither sick nor weakened from the birth, and certainly could have gone out of the house after giving birth, not only because of her exemption under the Law, but also because of the uninterrupted soundness of her body. For her son did not detract from her virginity, but actually strengthened it...."
I rarely disagree or question Martin Luther, but I question the good Doctor on the above. Mary gave birth without pain?
In a 1949 visit to Germany I was given the
Stuttgartner Bilderbible fur das Christliche Haus . The 2nd painting shows a tired worn out Mary resting on a bed of hay that is covered with a rough old piece of cloth. Joseph is kneeling at her side with his hand gently positioned on Mary's hand. Mary's other hand rests on the new born Jesus.
Not weakened from birth??? The painting shows Mary as weak and exhausted.
The uninterrupted soundness of her body??? As a young healthy woman I had four easy deliveries, but they were all painful. I was exhausted and welcomed having Bill there to hold my hand.
Seriously, much that has been written by men about the birth of Jesus, the Christ, strikes me as speculation. In other words, words written do not reflect the reality of what Mary experienced during her pregnancy and in giving birth to Jesus. I suspect she may have had morning sickness. She probably felt uncomfortable at times. I felt as if our son had kicked my ribs till they were bruised black and blue.
I question whether Mary remained a virgin. When I think of Joseph living with Mary for an unknown number of years, I doubt whether he slept in his carpenter's shop.
Today, when I reflect on Mary I think of what two grand-daughters are experiencing during their pregnancy. I enjoy watching how excited their husbands are at the prospect of being fathers. The mystery and wonder of the Son of God becoming human,the Son of Man, born of a young virgin woman is awesome. To ponder what it means that Jesus was a human of the same flesh and blood as Mary... the same flesh and blood as all humans ... can only fill our hearts with gratitude for our good and gracious God.
As Good Friday approaches, I also reflect on the icons where Mary stands with John at the foot of the cross. Her heart must have been broken beyond anything I can comprehend.
Marie Meyer