I think for some the connection is simply a matter of logical necessity. For example, when people say Mary must have given birth in pain because Jesus is truly human, they make the Flacian error, as Will pointed out, of confusing the effects of the fall with human nature itself. A lot of it seems to go back to Second Adam considerations, with Mary, the type of the Church, as the new Eve. Just as Eve was taken from the unfallen Adam's side by a special, unique act of God unlike any other birth, so Jesus, in reverse of that, was taken from Mary (necessarily unfallen) by a special act of God unlike any other birth.
Very well stated.
In both instances, the creation of the first woman from the first man and the Incarnation of Jesus the Christ from Mary by the power of the Holy Spirit, God was at work doing what only God can accomplish. According to Luther, Mary "got it." She understood that her giving birth to God the Son was about God and the nature of God to work from those the world regards as the "lowly." How did she get it?...the Holy Spirit gave her insight into God's way of working in and through His creation, man and woman.
Luther writes,
"When the holy virgin experienced what great things God was working in her despite her insignificance, her lowliness, poverty and inferiority,
the Holy Spirit taught her this deep wisdom and insight, that God is the kind of Lord who does nothing but exalt those of low degree and put down the mighty from their thrones, in short, break what is whole and make whole what is broken.... "Just as God at the beginning of creation made the world out of nothing, whence He is called the Creator and the Almighty, so His manner of working remains unchanged."
Here Luther connects the continuity of how
God works to accomplish His good and gracious will for mankind. The creation of the first man, Adam, from the dust of the earth was first and foremost about the nature of God. So also, the creation of the first woman from and for the first man reveals the nature of God to accomplish what God alone can do in response to the human need...in this instance, the man's need for a helper that would his true counterpart... bone of his bone and flesh of his flesh man's true counterpart
Luther's Magnificat Commentary provides insight into true knowledge of God's nature to"creatio ex nihilo.'
Luther writes, " The tender mother of Christ does the same here and teaches us with her words and by the example of her experience, how to know, love and praise God." IOW, Mary teaches us, man and woman, to recognize how God has worked in creation from the beginning to now....if we would but listen to her and keep our eyes focused on God.
Mary, by her words in the Magnificat, teaches us to recognize how God is present working in and through man and woman to accomplish God's will for mankind... be it God's work of creating the first woman from and for the man or God's work of sending God the Son to be born of a woman by the power of the Holy Spirit for mankind. The danger is that we focus on the man from whom God created woman rather than the God who accomplished what no human man could do. When God the Son became incarnate from the virgin Mary, she did not focus on herself. She kept her eyes focused on the God who accomplished what no human man could have accomplished. Luther writes that Mary teaches us to keep everything in the "right order" ... at the Incarnation of God the Son and the creation of man and woman.
Marie Meyer