There are so many errors in reasoning in that article it is hard to untangle them all. The worst, though, is presuming that because his Church approaches gays that way, this means all churches do, and further presuming that the opposite of treating homoxexuals as dirty sinful people to be scorned and avoided is to treat their attraction as normal and properly ordered and God-pleasing.
I have sexual attractions that are not God-pleasing too. I'm not demanding anyone celebrate them and join me in affirming them as proper and God-pleasing. Even if I managed to get the Church to do so, my wife is a bit of a tougher sell. So I do what Christians -- gay and straight -- have always done. I confess them, I repent of them, and I strive to avoid them. I fail, often. Imagine if I didn't bother trying.