So far not one of you have said, "My sexual preference is to be straight." Think about that for a moment.
Pastor Speckhard, I cannot believe that you are that dense. Of course Gay people get married, engage in heterosexual sex but societal pressure is always the overriding concern that these people have and they do not act to their true selves. I'm 72 years old and from a very early age I have had the prescience to know that getting married and having children were not in the cards for me. I have seen so many Gay people get married and have families. They are the unhappiest group of people around with a big, big secret. And some can no longer handle it and separate from their wives and families to start a new life thus devastating those left behind.
If it were that simple, why don't straight people flip the switch since it is so easy.
Nowhere was it said or implied that changing one's preferences, sexual or otherwise, is easy as flipping a switch. "Sexual preference" doesn't mean that. The point is that language police push an agenda by making speech a matter of virtue signaling. The most up-to-the-minute terminology serves no real purpose other than to distinguish the people who are really on board with progressivism from those who are merely going along with it to avoid conflict.
There was zero reason to correct Judge Barrett. There was not even real offense taken, as it evidenced by the lack of a rebuke even in recent days and weeks when other people used that term. It was purely a power play, to make the point that Judge Barrett is not a true believer, a fellow traveler with the Left.
This is why "virtue signaling" is a term in modern parlance.
Virtue signaling as it is, I am glad that Amy Comey Barrett calmly accepted the criticism, said she did not mean to offend, and moved on. While conservative media rage on and on about this, it defused the issue completely regarding the hearings.
I know that a great deal of Trump's base appreciates that he "does not play the media's game" and thus often doubles down in a situation like this. I know that by doing so he reinforces to that base that he will not let political correctness and the cancel culture intimidate him. I know that it also allows Trump to dominate the news cycle.
I still think it is foolish. Perhaps that simply means that while I acknowledge that Trump has done many good things policy-wise in his administration, I still find his being intentionally coarse and offensive to achieve those ends extremely distasteful. I'm on the other edge of the line where being crass and insulting turns me off rather than fires me up.
As the election nears and early voting has already started, I've noticed a significant number of Republican senators and congresspeople distancing from Trump. Regardless of whether Trump wins or loses, I am hoping that this represents the breaking of the fever which showed key Republicans like Lindsay Graham and Ted Cruz embrace Trump despite their earlier distaste for him. Up until now, a Trump endorsement or Trump criticism often made the difference in the Republican primaries. Even if Trump is re-elected, I think that many Republicans will not feel their electoral futures to be as bound to Trump, and I think they'll back off of the offensiveness for offensiveness' sake and act independently.
I'd love for Ben Sasse and Mitch McConnell to epitomize the future of the Republican party while the Trumpian populism fades into the background. Policy-wise that much may not change nor should it, but the change in tenor would be greatly appreciated.
* edited to correct wording