What if we all claimed sexual minority status
Sort of like the characters in the
Star Bellied Sneeches book, by Dr. Seuss?
by explaining that we are all, in fact, bisexual. We have simply decided on one monogamous partner and that partner just happens to be of the opposite sex and we have married them. Then we could all be "extraordinary"!
This is, in fact, pretty much what one 'expert' told the sexuality task force -- that everyone is, to some degree or another, homosexually oriented. Some more than others, of course, but all on a continuum (not a bell curve). He claimed no one is 100% heterosexual or homosexual, based on 'scientific' studies where people were asked to watch different combinations of couplings and measuring heart rate changes, etc. Doesn't really fit into the "I was born that way, it's not a choice, can't change it" reasoning, if so many of us have been able to "choose" one partner (opposite sex) and so I'm not sure what they made of that input to the task force.
The sexuality task force never really did spend a lot of time hearing from sexual minorities other than the GL set, or talking about them even, but since the Lutheran Youth voted to welcome and support people of ALL SEXUAL ORIENTATIONS they will get to talk about it someday in the ELCA, I am sure (even though I don't think the youth had any idea just how many 'orientations' are out there nowdays).
If we all claimed bisexual status and said we just "chose" to marry opposite sex, we'd have to also support those who would choose otherwise, I suppose, so this strategy wouldn't work. I don't think orientation
is a choice, but that still doesn't make it good, or bless-able. (it's a bondage, as in 'we are in bondage to sin and cannot free ourselves.') Adam and Eve were created good; after that, the rest of us come into the world as sinners.
Debbie Hesse