At the same time they could give no reason for why they would not vote for Hillary Clinton.
Forgive me for asking this if it makes me sound like I don't believe you, but...was it that they could give no reason, or perhaps they simply felt that it was unnecessary to articulate the reason?
It would be my luck that the one presidential election year that the Democratic candidates are both so awful that my wife would consider actually voting for the Republican, the current leader on that side is Trump. My wife has no trouble articulating exactly why she doesn't like any of them this time around. Her opinion of Hillary: untrustworthy, even for a politician (every one of which lies, no matter what his/her supporters might say). That said, neither of us has completely ruled out voting for her, as she is the devil we know and understand. For me, her being the candidate (of either party) who has taken the most money from Wall Street is actually a good thing, as she probably has little interest to completely burn down our financial system. Unlike Bernie.
I am reluctant to speculate, but I can imagine some women might be reluctant to specify their criticisms of the first legitimate female candidate for president...especially if it has anything to do with her marriage. I can tell you my mother absolutely hates Hillary and views her with contempt as an opportunist for sticking with Bill, even after his public humiliation of her, to further her ambition. I'm NOT telling you what you, or your quilting women, should think. But I do understand social taboos are real.
Sterling Spatz