You were what? Is there a brief summary account for those who've not heard it before?
In Luther’s explanation of the 8th commandment in the Large Catechism, we are admonished to put the best construction on everything for the sake of our neighbor’s reputation, until we are questioned by the established authorities about our neighbor’s wrongdoing. For us to “give our spin” on what happened leading up to our exodus, without the other side having an opportunity to also state their views, would be improper.
Until such time as the proper authorities, either congregational or synodical, request testimony from us regarding the specifics of our “complaints,” we intend to respect the process, even though we believe the process thusfar has failed us and the congregation. We needed to have access to word and sacrament, an opportunity for confession, study, and fellowship; therefore we sought sanctuary and were granted same by our friends.
The temptation is to say much more, but at this point, the temptation needs to be resisted. That is our cross in this situation.
Lou & Debbie Hesse