I'm sure Arians everywhere are breathing a disappointed sigh at your untimely birth, especially with your Myers-Briggs training. If only you'd been at Nicea in 325 you'd have set us all right in discerning the difference between an a-hole and a load of crap.
Well, we aren't living in Nicea in 325. We have to discern whether someone is an a-hole or a load of crap. Whether the people are part of the body of Christ or need to be expunged from the body. I think that this distinction needs to be in the minds of those who are disagreeing with others. We need to ask ourselves: "Do I believe that the other person is part of the body of Christ or not?"