Gloria Steinem, a vocal leader of the feminist
movement, said, "Marriage is a jail cell and women
need to get out of jail and assert their freedom
and independence."
The "Pill" gave women their independence and
in the process weakened the foundation of
marriage. In 1970, 11 percent of children were
born to unwed mothers. In 2008, 41 percent of
children were born to unwed mothers.
Children born to unwed mothers has nothing to do with abortion. If you remember right, Jesus was conceived in an unwed mother.
The last two baptisms I had were to children of unwed parents. At least the fathers were part of the service. With my previous unwed parents baptism, the father was nowhere to be seen - and has had almost no contact with his daughter. In contrast to that, a couple of young friends were married when their children were born, but then the fathers decided they didn't want children and took off with another woman.
While being married increases the odds of a stable home life, it's no guarantee of it; and being unmarried (not having the state paper-work) does not mean that the couple will not stay together for the rest of their lives.
Mary was not an unwed mother! She was betrothed to her husband Joseph. She was wife to him in every way except that which leads to children. And Joseph was husband to her in every way except that which leads to children. I certainly hope you were attempting some humor, but if not, what's the matter with you that you make such a disrespectful comment about the mother of God? Please!
Was Mary married to Joseph when she became pregnant? That is the only question my statement raises.
Actually there's more than that involved in your statement: "Jesus was conceived in an unwed mother."
In fact, Jesus was conceived in an unwed virgin. Mary was not a mother prior to the conception of Jesus. That, of course, changed at the moment of conception, when she became the mother of God.
She was, however, betrothed when she conceived, which is more than just the faint shadow we see in today's practice of engagement to be married.
Of course the other issue your statement seems to suggest is that a woman becomes a mother when she becomes pregnant, not merely when the child is born. That's a truth many of us who are pro-life have been asserting for decades, though it has not been embraced by those who elevate choice as the greatest good. I'm glad to see that you recognize this truth.