cssml writes:
Charles, human sexuality is beautiful, sacred, God's gift to us and and is not ours alone to do with what we will. As with any gift, He created it with distinct ends and purposes. As has been stated many times here, the Catholic church (and all Christendom prior to 1930s) has always understood and taught that there are two distinct ends and purposes of human sexuality; the unitive purpose, in which the husband and wife give themselves to each other in totality, freely, and without reservation, and the procreative purpose, in which through this act of total self giving to each other, the possibility of God giving new life to the world is not intentionally denied.
I comment:
Where have I ever said I deny the unitive and procreative purpose of human sexuality? I fully affirm that. But you (and others) seem to say that if there is sexual intimacy that by its nature cannot be procreative, it is sinful. I think that is hogwash. A couple can fully affirm both aspects of sexuality and still say that not every expression of intimacy has to fully embrace both.
cssml writes:
The Catholic church holds it to be true that to deny either of these ends and purposes of God's gift of human sexuality is to fall short, to sin, to choose our own will over God's will and desire for us.
I comment:
See above. To repeat, every time the couple gets in the car and turns on the engine, do they have to go to Duluth? And if they don't, have they perverted the purpose of the automobile?
cssml writes:
No matter how many times you falsely claim that those you disagree with hold the position that "it is ALL about procreation", it simply is not true.
I comment:
Then prove it to me. Can there be sexual intimacy in which procreation is neither intended nor desired? Can there be sexual intimacy where steps are taken to prevent procreation?
cssml writes:
Until 1930s, and the Lambeth conferences, this is something all Christians agreed on. This is not a reformational dividing line.
I muse:
Actually, I doubt we really know what "all Christians" agreed upon with regard to sex before the 1930s.
cssml writes:
Maybe you hold it to be true that the Holy Spirit has guided the many denominations to embrace the artificial denial of the procreative aspect for the sake of focusing entirely on the the unitive/loving/pleasure aspect.
I comment:
Now who is making assumptions? See above. I do not say the focus should be solely on the unitive aspect of sexuality.
cssml writes:
If any "side" on this has a narrow view, it it this side which chooses to elevate the one end and purpose (unitive) to the only end by artificially denying the other.
I muse:
And what of those who so elevate the procreative aspect that to say if it is not present, sexuality is perverted and sinful?