The congregation's "governing documents," Mr. Gale, are not the whole deal and with regard to some things, certainly are not the final deal.
And, Pastor Cottingham, the "unity" I seek within the ELCA comes through people respecting properly-made decisions, respecting our leaders, and honoring our commitments to one another. I held off saying it for a long time, but people here convinced me that it needs to be said.
If you are not willing to abide by the policies and procedures by which we have - through our approved and proper processes - chosen to "be the church", then maybe you do not belong in the ELCA.
That cuts a lot of ways.
If you will not accept the ministry of a pastor who was not ordained by a bishop, then you do not belong in the ELCA.
If you want to call someone off the ELCA clergy roster or not on the roster of one of our ecumenical partners as your pastor, then you do not belong in the ELCA.
If you will not let a synod or congregation that now wishes to do so issue a call to a partnered gay or lesbian pastor, then maybe you do not belong in the ELCA.
These are not matters of our eternal salvation - though some seem to contend that they are - but they are serious matters concerning how we have agreed to live together within the ELCA and order our life within the ELCA.
And I still do not understand why those whose attitudes towards the ELCA are those expressed by the policies of the NALC and LCMC want to be a part of the ELCA. I am glad that some - like Erma and Steven - stay in and work with us. But for some others? You can't be happy here and it is not healthy for you to be here. So....