The last page brings to mind the theological double speak that frustrates many of us who remain in the ELCA:
A. We are told that anyone who leaves the ELCA over issues of sexuality is denying the unity we have in Christ. Here both the images of the Body of Christ and the Family of God are employed.
I have not heard that argument used at all. Whether or not a congregation or individuals leave the ELCA, we are still united in Christ. We don't always act like it.
B. ELCA leaders then demand strict adherence to the interpretations of the current Secretary of the ELCA as the measure of good standing in the ELCA. These make dual association with other members of the Family of God cause for discipline.
Members and congregations have a covenant relationship with their denomination -- and the closest analogy that we have to a covenant relationships is marriage. Once in that relationship, we agree to follow certain rules and behaviors. Throughout scriptures, turning to another God is called adultery -- being unfaithful to the marriage vows. God's covenant with us is summarized with: "I will be your God and you will be my people." In marriage: "I will be your husband/wife and you will be my wife/husband." And, "We will be your congregation and you will be our denomination." While there are means to get out of the marriage and denominational relationship; but once in them, the proper steps have to be taken to get out.
A. Those who leave the ELCA are called schismatic.
It depends on their rhetoric and actions after leaving. If they continue to encourage congregations to leave and bad-mouthing the ELCA, that is being schismatic -- working at tearing apart their former denomination. If they believe that leaving was the best choice for themselves, that is not seeking to tear apart the ELCA.
B. Those who refuse to pray the Our Father are considered members in good standing of the ELCA.
Not necessarily. Those who pray "Our Father" should be considered members in good standing of the family of God and should be treated as a brother or sister in Christ, regardless of who they have married or which denomination they have entered a relationship with.
As I recall, this sub-thread began with the question of what is our unity. I said that it begins with having a common Father. That is not all that is involved in uniting a group of people in a family or a congregation or a denomination. There is an old saying: "The family that prays together, stays together." My hunch is that when factions within a congregation no longer gather to pray together, the unity given them by God is eroding.