Pastor Cottingham writes:
On the contrary, the troubles that exist in the ELCA are precisely because of the attitude you've so aptly expressed here time and time again. Your continued disdain for and insulting attitude towards anyone who dares show even a hint of criticism toward your beloved institution is what is not helpful, and I find it the prevailing attitude of the vast majority of revisionists.
I comment:
My irritation - I say for the thousandth time - is not towards those who criticize the ELCA. It is certainly not towards those who show "even a hint" of criticism. (And BTW, I do love my church body. Do you not love yours?)
It is towards those who denounce, carp, condemn, pronounce judgement, and otherwise try to write our fellowship out of the Lutheran communion or the Church.
It is towards those who, having taken their stand - supposedly based on their faith and conscience - against the direction of their church body (and not only on The Issue), and then expect no reaction.
My irritation is towards those who supposedly are part of our fellowship, but arrogantly announce that they despise what we do and refuse to support our common mission, those who claim that because we disagree on some things they will no longer honor our fellowship, its leaders and members in anything.
"You, ELCA," they say, "are unbiblical, your leaders are corrupt and I will not give you my full support. Now, would you please nominate me for a call to one of your parishes?" Give me a break!
Not all the "traditionalists" denounce, carp, condemn, despise and pronounce judgement. I hope we can treat them as partners. I admit that some of us have a hard time doing that.
You have left the ELCA. But your continued obsession with who we are and what we do - even after you are no longer with us - strongly suggests that it was good for you and for us that you left.
I say again: best wishes for your ministry in your new church body. And I think that will go better if you let go of mine. And I hope we are done here.