Statement - "The idea that what George has been doing for 59 years- corporate confession/absolution- is not good enough, and to not desire to go to private confession renders one not a Christian."
I honestly do not believe that those who support the use of private confession ever said that or believe that. I do not! And no way would I perceive or think that George should feel that way. He makes a valid point.
No, I did say that--or something kind of like it.
Corporate confession and absolution as we have it is not what is taught in the small catechism. It's good enough in the sense that a sermon is good enough. It's plenty good. Very good, even. It's just not what the catechism is talking about, and as a substitute for private confession and absolution I don't think it works.
As for whether a person is not a Christian if they don't desire private confession and absolution, I agree with Luther on this. "Thus we teach what a wonderful, precious, and comforting thing confession is, and we urge that such a precious blessing should not be despised, especially when we consider our great need. if you are a Christian, you need neither my compulsion nor the pope's command at any point, but [i
]you will compel yourself[/i] and beg me for the privilege of sharing in it. However, if you despise it and proudly stay away from confession, then we must come to the conclusion that you are no Christian and that you ought not receive the sacrament. For you despise what no Christian ought to despise, and you show thereby that you can have no forgiveness of sin. And this is asure sign that you also despise the Gospel...Therefore, when I urge you to go to confession, I am simply urging you to be a Christian. if I bring you to this point, I have also brought you to confession. Those who really want to be good Christians, free from their sins, and happy in their conscience, already have the true hunger and thirst. They snatch at the bread just like a hunted hart, burning with heat and thirst, as Ps. 42:2 says, "As a hart longs for flowing streams, so longs my soul for thee, O God." (Large Catechism, V. 28-29, 32-33, Tappert.)"
Now, maybe there is something that I don't know about this quote from Luther that Pastor Kirchner will teach me. In that case, I will admit that Pastor Kirchner has corrected me, and that when he strides though fora like a colossus, fearlessly setting people straight, he has a right to do so. But as it stands, it seems like he is calling Luther a legalist and speaking dismissively of him when he does so of me, and I find that obnoxious. So hopefully, Pr. Kirchner, you're going to provide me with some insight into this passage of Luther that justifies what you've written, instead of the nitpicking and quibbling you did the last time you tried to teach me my place.
I'm not saying that George is not a Christian; I'm saying that to despise private absolution is unchristian. Sadly, because Lutherans have become unaccustomed to the practice that we are confessionally bound to teach people to value, when it is suggested that it should be our normal practice, people react negatively and don't see why they should do it. I don't count that as "despising" confession and absolution. It's only natural that you shouldn't accept a teaching or practice that is new to you the first time you hear about it, and if for 59 years you've been confessing with the whole congregation and were taught that that was really what ought to be normal, I would imagine that it would be very difficult to imagine doing anything different. Also, being argued with on the internet by some guy who's not your pastor is not the same as being taught patiently by your pastor. Maybe years from now, after teaching private confession and absolution regularly, winsomely, and patiently at my own congregation, there would be those who are not simply reacting to a change but actually despising private confession--maybe after years of teaching a pastor could safely diagnose someone as "despising" confession and therefore despising the Gospel, as Luther did. But George isn't being taught that by his pastor, so I'm not accusing him of despising it. He's just disagreeing with some pastors who are teaching something other than what he's been taught and been accustomed to do.
In the Missouri Synod, I have heard, the people who wrote the first constitution originally wanted to make private confession the only acceptable form of confession within the synod, but then changed their minds because they realized that people were not ready for it. But Walther said that every pastor needed to work diligently to bring it back and teach people to love it. Now I wonder what his opinion would be of the fact that 164 years later we seem to have not made much progress at all. My guess is that this is not what he had envisioned. Nor would it be what Luther would have wanted to see the Lutheran church become.