George, where ever you have found yourself, lead your church. Yes, you! You do not need to be ordained to be a leader. Teach Sunday school but without malice or agenda, just teach it honestly. Become known as a wise and trustworthy presence that people want to listen to and want to respect. Lead your congregation from within and trust that if you are faithful to the word of God that God will use whatever happens there for a blessed purpose.
I am a leader within my congregation. I serve on council and engage in leadership both by what I say and by example. But even as a leader, I do not pick the pastor's sermon topics. He does an outstanding job and doesn't need any interference from me. Tomorrow, in addition to playing guitar for Sunday School, worship, and the special Blessing of the Animals service in the afternoon, I'll also be the lector and will preach the children's sermon. Our pastor has decided to go away from the lectionary for a while to concentrate on some Old Testament issues, so tomorrow his sermon will be about the Ten Commandments. I will be teaching the children that God gave us the Ten Commandments so that we'd know right from wrong, and that the Bible,
and only the Bible, is where we learn what God expects of us. I won't be including any Gospel in the Children's message because that will be covered in both Sunday School and in the pastor's real sermon. I can only fit so much into three to five minutes.
My point is quite simple. Suppose a church and/or its pastor "chooses" not to engage the question of sexuality.
How did this discussion of the ELCA's ill-conceived policies regarding sex get twisted into being about pastors not engaging the question of sexuality? What does engaging the question of sexuality have to do with the ELCA's confused and ambiguous social statement? There is a world of difference between engaging in the question of sexuality, and discussing the ELCA's ludicrous Social Statements adopted in August 2009. Of course pastors need to preach and teach what the Bible says about sexual behaviour. That's what being a pastor is all about. Discussing the ELCA's pathetic revisionist statements regarding the standards for clergy is a different issue.